Saturday, February 2, 2013

Standards are the new "it"...

I've been traveling professionally and personally since the end of October. I looked at my schedule this week and was extremely elated that I will be in DC by choice the entire month of February. I immediately began to reach out to a few people that I haven't had time to spend with and the reactions were interesting. For the most part, it was pure joy and comments that not only was I missed but there were conversations of calendars syncing so that we could make time to truly catch up on each others' lives. There's nothing like face time, even when you talk to people weekly, if not daily.

There were a few people that I realized didn't necessarily notice that I was gone for an extended period of time or my absence simply didn't impact their lives. And while my feelings were hurt, I take into consideration that life continues no matter what. It's been a great lesson that you can't spend more time caring about others than you do yourself.

dyism:
Learn from life's setbacks. Don't ever question the standards you set for yourself or those that surround you.